Joshua's birthday party is scheduled for August 12th and he has decided upon, surprise, surprise, a Halloween theme.
I think we'll have it at our house.
Ideas for the spooktacular party:
1. Rent a bounce house. The castle one. Because castles are spooky, you know.
2. Blow up the "family fun" swimming pool I bought a couple weeks ago. Maybe get some dry ice for it. (is it safe for dry ice to be in contact with skin?)
The combination of these two ideas may not be the best. I can just see slippery bodies running into each other and getting hurt in the bounce house.
3. Water balloons in black, orange, green, purple.
4. Spin art in black, orange, green, purple. The results kind of resemble spider webs.
5. Halloween printables to color with crayon and then watercolor. (Joshua liked the resist artwork we did.)
6. Bubbles.
7. Ghost pinata.
8. Plant your own pumpkin.
Thoughts on food:
1. Pizza (easier than bbq'ing)
2. breadsticks formed in the shape of bones with marinara blood dipping sauce
3. green jello with worms (gummy) and eyeballs (also gummy) in it.
4. cake
Things about Halloween that Joshua likes:
1. witches
2. ghosts
3. zombies
4. mummies
5. pumpkins
6. bats
7. spiders
8. frankenstein
9. werewolves
10. vampires
If anyone reading this has any ideas, post a comment! If you've been to a Halloween party that had something cute, let me know! I am especially lacking in the food area.
Saturday, June 23, 2012
Thursday, June 21, 2012
my new plan
Since I know that letting Evan cry is really not an option, neither in my room nor Joshua's, and nursing him every time he wakes is just plain exhausting, I have a new plan.
I don't know how well it will work, but I think it's worth a try.
The plan:
Any wakings prior to midnight will not be met by the boob*.
Any wakings less than 3 hours from the last feed will not be met by the boob*.
*If attempts to calm crying baby are unsuccessful in the first five minutes (which are like a lifetime in the middle of the night), it is okay to offer the boob.
If baby is calm but awake and falls into these categories, only rocking/bouncing and other non-boob techniques shall be used.
(Last night he woke at 1:30=nurse, 2:30=rock/sway, 4:40=nurse and it worked well. And I feel less tired.)
While both nursing and rocking require me to be awake (I can't nurse while laying down), rocking generally only takes a maximum of 10 minutes while nursing is closer to 20 minutes. Why don't I alway rock him, you ask. Well, because it's harder to calm him down that way. Popping the boob in the mouth is like a miracle cure for crying baby.
But's it's a miracle cure that isn't helping us to get sleep around here.
I'm hoping that as we move away from nursing during the night, he'll have less reason to need me when he wakes. I'm hoping.
I don't know how well it will work, but I think it's worth a try.
The plan:
Any wakings prior to midnight will not be met by the boob*.
Any wakings less than 3 hours from the last feed will not be met by the boob*.
*If attempts to calm crying baby are unsuccessful in the first five minutes (which are like a lifetime in the middle of the night), it is okay to offer the boob.
If baby is calm but awake and falls into these categories, only rocking/bouncing and other non-boob techniques shall be used.
(Last night he woke at 1:30=nurse, 2:30=rock/sway, 4:40=nurse and it worked well. And I feel less tired.)
While both nursing and rocking require me to be awake (I can't nurse while laying down), rocking generally only takes a maximum of 10 minutes while nursing is closer to 20 minutes. Why don't I alway rock him, you ask. Well, because it's harder to calm him down that way. Popping the boob in the mouth is like a miracle cure for crying baby.
But's it's a miracle cure that isn't helping us to get sleep around here.
I'm hoping that as we move away from nursing during the night, he'll have less reason to need me when he wakes. I'm hoping.
Wednesday, June 20, 2012
how is it possible?
Before Evan, everyone said that if I were to have another, they'd be different, the next one will sleep.
Well, they are different. And the next one sleeps WORSE!
To be fair to Joshua, once he figured out how to go longer than 2 hours, he was going 10-12 hours at night. That started at about 3.5 months and lasted about 2 months. Then he got sick and we had to do breathing treatments all day and all night. And that lasted, like, 9 months. We had to "ferberize" him on multiple occasions (the revised waiting approach, not just cry-it-out). We've had good and bad patches. Right now (like, for the past month or so) he has regularly been sleeping from bedtime until morning with no calls for me. Most nights. Not all.
And then there's Evan. He was so quick to go from nursing every 2 hours to 3-4 hours at night, I was sure people were right and I had a sleeper. But then, he reverted back to waking every couple hours. He's nearing 6 months and last night was up 4 times.
I've read a lot of books on sleep. A LOT. Ferber, Sears, Brazelton, Babywise, No-Cry Sleep Solution, and on and on. There is no real answer. Ferberizing isn't really an option since Evan doesn't have his own room, and so I "parent" back to sleep (nurse, rock, bounce, sssshhh). And I'm wearing thin.
Sorry to post about sleep again, but I'm the kind of person whose outlook on life is quite dependent on sleep. So, it's constantly on my mind.
Well, they are different. And the next one sleeps WORSE!
To be fair to Joshua, once he figured out how to go longer than 2 hours, he was going 10-12 hours at night. That started at about 3.5 months and lasted about 2 months. Then he got sick and we had to do breathing treatments all day and all night. And that lasted, like, 9 months. We had to "ferberize" him on multiple occasions (the revised waiting approach, not just cry-it-out). We've had good and bad patches. Right now (like, for the past month or so) he has regularly been sleeping from bedtime until morning with no calls for me. Most nights. Not all.
And then there's Evan. He was so quick to go from nursing every 2 hours to 3-4 hours at night, I was sure people were right and I had a sleeper. But then, he reverted back to waking every couple hours. He's nearing 6 months and last night was up 4 times.
I've read a lot of books on sleep. A LOT. Ferber, Sears, Brazelton, Babywise, No-Cry Sleep Solution, and on and on. There is no real answer. Ferberizing isn't really an option since Evan doesn't have his own room, and so I "parent" back to sleep (nurse, rock, bounce, sssshhh). And I'm wearing thin.
Sorry to post about sleep again, but I'm the kind of person whose outlook on life is quite dependent on sleep. So, it's constantly on my mind.
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
camping
Last year we rented a motorhome and spent two days at Yosemite Lakes joined by Brian's family and then two days at Bass Lake on our own. It was fun so we decided to do it again. Only this year was different. The biggest difference being that this year we had a five month old with us.
Monday, the 4th of June, was a hectic day. I had to meet a bunch of inspectors and contractors for work that morning. When I was finished, I took Brian and Joshua to pick up the RV. Brian hadn't been feeling well the past few days and when he couldn't reach our doctor, went to urgent care, leaving me with the two boys to pack up the motorhome.
Joshua was super excited and started grabbing stuff from the house. Instead of filling up the motorhome with random items, I had him unpack the bags that I had prepared. So, Joshua was in charge of packing the motorhome. And I couldn't find my tank tops all week.
We didn't end up leaving Santa Cruz until nearly 7 pm. Fortunately, we had had the foresight to make a reservation at San Luis Reservoir for that first night and therefore only had about two hours to drive. When we arrived at San Luis, both Brian and Joshua were amped, but Evan needed to go to bed so the two big boys watched a movie in the cabover while i got Evan to sleep in the bed.
The next morning, we headed to Camp Wishon. The drive there took nearly 6 hours due to some unforseen stops. When we finally arrived, Brian's mom and stepdad (henceforth referred to as Nana and Papa) were already there. My parents (Rebbie and Grandaddy) drove up to have dinner with us.
The next day we went on a walk up the river with our fishing poles. No one caught anything, but we had a good time. Brian's sister and brother-in-law (Lisa and Mike) arrived that afternoon and we all had dinner together before Lisa and Mike left.
That night, Evan was awake virtually every hour.
The next morning, Nana and Papa left and we were planning on staying one more day and leaving the next morning. With no help, and me on little sleep, we decided instead to make the trek home that day.
It was fun but so much work trying to camp with a little baby. Next year will be easier, hopefully!
Also, I didn't get many pictures. Hopefully Nana will email some of the ones that were taken with her camera.
Monday, the 4th of June, was a hectic day. I had to meet a bunch of inspectors and contractors for work that morning. When I was finished, I took Brian and Joshua to pick up the RV. Brian hadn't been feeling well the past few days and when he couldn't reach our doctor, went to urgent care, leaving me with the two boys to pack up the motorhome.
Joshua was super excited and started grabbing stuff from the house. Instead of filling up the motorhome with random items, I had him unpack the bags that I had prepared. So, Joshua was in charge of packing the motorhome. And I couldn't find my tank tops all week.
We didn't end up leaving Santa Cruz until nearly 7 pm. Fortunately, we had had the foresight to make a reservation at San Luis Reservoir for that first night and therefore only had about two hours to drive. When we arrived at San Luis, both Brian and Joshua were amped, but Evan needed to go to bed so the two big boys watched a movie in the cabover while i got Evan to sleep in the bed.
The next morning, we headed to Camp Wishon. The drive there took nearly 6 hours due to some unforseen stops. When we finally arrived, Brian's mom and stepdad (henceforth referred to as Nana and Papa) were already there. My parents (Rebbie and Grandaddy) drove up to have dinner with us.
The next day we went on a walk up the river with our fishing poles. No one caught anything, but we had a good time. Brian's sister and brother-in-law (Lisa and Mike) arrived that afternoon and we all had dinner together before Lisa and Mike left.
That night, Evan was awake virtually every hour.
The next morning, Nana and Papa left and we were planning on staying one more day and leaving the next morning. With no help, and me on little sleep, we decided instead to make the trek home that day.
It was fun but so much work trying to camp with a little baby. Next year will be easier, hopefully!
Also, I didn't get many pictures. Hopefully Nana will email some of the ones that were taken with her camera.
snail house
We have countless snails at our house. Joshua hasn't ever really ever taken notice of them. Then today we were at a friend's house and Joshua and Grace found a snail that Joshua decided he wanted to keep as a pet. We put it in a bucket and went on with our play. When we went back for it, it, of course, had slithered away(do snails slither? they don't really crawl, do they?).
No worries! We have a plethora of snails to choose from at home.
As soon as we got home, we went to work making our snail house. I found an old applesauce container, peeled off the label and washed it up. We collected some leaves and sticks and even an unripe walnut. Then we looked behind a bush and found seven snails, four of which have become our pets.
Right now the lid is some saran wrap with some holes poked in it. When Brian gets home, I'm going to have him punch some holes in the actual lid so we can seal it off but hopefully keep the snails breathing.
No worries! We have a plethora of snails to choose from at home.
As soon as we got home, we went to work making our snail house. I found an old applesauce container, peeled off the label and washed it up. We collected some leaves and sticks and even an unripe walnut. Then we looked behind a bush and found seven snails, four of which have become our pets.
Right now the lid is some saran wrap with some holes poked in it. When Brian gets home, I'm going to have him punch some holes in the actual lid so we can seal it off but hopefully keep the snails breathing.
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Sunday, June 17, 2012
Bubble painting
Taking an idea from Housing A Forest again, Joshua did some bubble painting.
First, I mixed some dishsoap and water and Joshua added some food coloring. Then we took straws and blew bubbles in the soap, popped the bubbles onto the paper, and voila, art!
When blowing got tiresome (Joshua got a mouth of soap twice), we decided to try painting with the mixtures.
This was quite messy but tons of fun and held Joshua's interest for over an hour.
Here are a few of the finished masterpieces:
First, I mixed some dishsoap and water and Joshua added some food coloring. Then we took straws and blew bubbles in the soap, popped the bubbles onto the paper, and voila, art!
Here are a few of the finished masterpieces:
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